Remember that the heartbreak doesn’t last forever, but it doesn’t mean it won’t hurt. There will be days when it will hurt as if it was the first day you have felt it. You will wonder if the pain will ever fade, and you will feel tired and lost and broken.
But the thing is, there’s a light in you that’s waiting to shine. There’s a part of you that wants to be better and do better. That part of you will be the one to save you. Your desire to heal is what will push you to move forward.
Remember who you are now, and who you want to be. Picture yourself 6 months from now, and think about who and where you want that person to be. Think about who the best version of yourself is. What is that version of you doing that makes them so amazing? Are you following your passions? Has this person let go of all the baggage’s that are in the past, and is now totally rocking life? Imagine yourself being the happiest you could ever be, doing what you love and enjoying your own company. And when it hurts, and when it feels like you’ve lost your way, remember that version of yourself that you can and will become.
On days that it hurts, remember that it is just a day that will pass by.
You need to focus on the things that are in your life right now, not the ones that have gone. You need to look forward to what the next day will bring, and the things that you can do to make your life even just slightly better. You have to remember and appreciate the little things in your life that bring you joy, and focus on them. The more you focus on all the right things, the more you set your mind and your heart for success.
You can’t win a battle you haven’t even fought, so remember the part of yourself that wants to fight, and let them take over. Fight the battle that’s inside you. You can win, or you can lose, but either way, you fight and you keep fighting. Don’t you ever dare to give up, you owe that yourself. Remember what you are fighting for, and remember that you are too special to be given up on.
Remember that when other people won’t fight for you, then you have to fight for yourself.